Every year, I host the holiday meal after Yom Kippur (called “Break Fast,” when you literally break the fast from sundown the previous day).  This is the only holiday I enjoy hosting for several reasons.  First, the traditional meal is bagels and appetizing which I order already on platters. Second, it’s buffet style, so no serving is required.  Third, while some of my guests may wait until sundown to eat, others eat as soon as they arrive.  This means I don’t need to have seating for each guest.  Finally, I use paper plates and plastic utensils, making clean up a breeze!

The only thing I actually cook is my “famous” baked cinnamon French toast.  I say it’s famous because I refer to it in my book, Secrets of an Organized Mom, and it’s amazing the number of people around the country who have emailed me asking for the recipe.  I prepare it the night before and heat it up as my guests arrive. My house smells delicious and people think I slaved all day in the kitchen. Here’s my recipe, so you can try it yourself:

Recipe: Baked Cinnamon French Toast

Ingredients: 6 eggs
2 1/2 cups of milk
1 teaspoon vanilla
1/4 teaspoon of cinnamon (can use more)
1 baguette
1 stick butter
1/2 cup light brown sugar
1/2 cup chopped nuts
1 tablespoon light corn syrup

Method: Combine eggs, milk, vanilla, and cinnamon in bowl. Slice baguette into thin slices and layer in a 9 x 9 pan.
Pour mixture over bread and refrigerate (overnight if possible).
Combine butter, brown sugar, corn syrup, and nuts.
After bread has soaked in liquid, spread over top of bread.
Cook on 350 degrees for about 1 hour or until puffed and golden.

Are you hosting a barbecue this summer?   If planning your party is putting a dampener on beach weekends, here are my tips for a stress free barbecue!

One Week Before:

1. Finalize your headcount.
2. Figure out the menu, including what drinks you’ll serve.
3. If guests ask to bring something, have suggestions ready.  Then, keep a list so there are no repeats.
4. Shop for food and drinks.  Don’t forget to purchase alternative options for vegetarians, and condiments, too!
5. Shop for plates, utensils, and linens.
6. Check your grill: if you are low on supplies like propane or need new tools, purchase that too.  Don’t forget to purchase bug spray and citronella candles!
7. Make sure you have enough tables and chairs for the event.

One Day Before:

1. Prepare whatever food you can.  You don’t want to be working during your own party!  And if your budget allows, hiring help for food prep and cleanup can change the tone of the day for you, too.
2. Put all drinks in the refrigerator.  In summer weather, you’ll need to have plenty of cold water and ice available throughout the day.
3. Tidy the house, inside and out!
4. Figure out your summer music playlist.  If you dare, you can leave this one up to one of your kids.

Day of the Party:

1. Wake up early.  Get dressed — keep it casual for a barbecue!
2. Set the table early and make it festive with flowers and great summer serve ware.
3. Make sure to have some outdoor games available.
4. Make sure that no food is overcooked or undercooked!  And set up your grill somewhat distanced from the center of the party.
5. Pour yourself a drink before guests arrive, and get ready for some real summer fun!

I admit to not being a sports fan, not knowing who the contenders are for the 2014 Super Bowl, and even (gasp) not really caring.  Yet, I find myself hosting 20 to 30 people each year for a Super Bowl party that’s often pulled together at the last minute.  Since clearly I’m not a last minute party planner, you might wonder why this happens, and the answer is twofold.  First, my husband and son spend the week or so before the game casually mentioning to friends that they should come over to watch the game without keeping track of how many people “might” be coming. And, two, the Super Bowl lends itself to such casual entertaining, that it’s not difficult to pull off.  So, if you find yourself in this position, here are my tips for a simple but easy Super Bowl celebration!

1. Assemble a guest list.  Or, in my case, figure out who has already been invited and confirm who is actually coming.
2. Consider a simple email instead of an actual invitation.  In the email, you can clarify the time you want people to arrive and ask for an RSVP response.
3. Encourage guests to bring specific items.  I always request that guests bring dessert.  It’s one less thing to worry about.
4. Easy appetizers are perfectly appropriate.  This is the one party where you can simply pour some chips and pretzels in bowls, and you’re all set.
5. Create party areas.  Make sure you have enough seating for people to watch the game, but also be prepared for those who may want to mingle (or just watch the commercials).  I leave televisions on in the kitchen, living room, and den and encourage people to move around.
6. Serve dinner buffet style.  And there’s no shame in just ordering in pizzas and eating on paper plates.
7. Do most of the clean up during the last quarter of the game.  Admittedly, this only works if, like me, you’re not vested in the outcome of the game.  If you use disposable plates and utensils, all that’s required is throwing things in one big garbage bag and taking it outside.

There are some people who love playing host and those who believe that guests and fish stink after three days. I have to admit, that I fall into the latter category. Yet, even though my guests’ visits are short and sweet, I still make sure my guest room is well stocked and my guests are comfortable for the duration of their stay. If you want to ensure that the time you have guests is as enjoyable for you as it is for them, here are my tried and true “guest rules”:

1. The guest room and bathroom should be dusted and clean, including clean sheets on the bed and fresh towels and soap in the bathroom. Have extra pillows and a blanket available. A light for reading, an alarm clock, and a working television are also nice to have.

2. Consider sleeping in your guest room for a night. It’s the only way you’ll know if it’s comfortable or if there are other issues that need to be fixed.

3. Remove any personal items that you may have been storing in the guest room. If you can’t allocate an entire dresser or closet, empty a few drawers and a portion of the closet. Empty hangers should be in the closet.

4. Let guests know about any house rules. For example, you may not allow eating outside the kitchen, and there may be specific instructions about turning on or off an alarm.

5. Your guests should be told what time meals will be served and whether there are any structured activities that are occurring on a schedule.

6. Be specific about when your guests should arrive and when you expect them to leave. There’s nothing worse than guests who arrive at inconvenient times and/or overstay their welcome.

7. If you have a vacation home, consider not inviting guests on consecutive weekends. Playing host/hostess is exhausting, so having your own weekend in between hosting guests gives you time to unwind and do what you want to do.

8. Leave some time unscheduled so everyone can relax.

9. Ask in advance about food preferences and allergies. Do any necessary grocery shopping prior to your guests’ arrival.

10. Add fresh flowers in a small vase to the guest room. Your guests feel special, and it requires minimal effort on your part.